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Jun. 3rd, 2008 | 09:49 pm
posted by: be_bedeski in quotes

 Well guys, I did it. I fell in love with my best friend, the most stupid thing a girl could ever do. And now i'm shuttered and scared ans broken heart and the worst part is, I can't turn on him for advice. To be brief, I met him last year and we sort of had a thing, but there were other people in the way, so we became just friends. And it was fine, I told him my stories, he told me his...But it got into a point I can't deny it, and I think it's stupid, but may be he feels the same confused way about me too...We talk everyday, seriously, and we exchange cute text messages in the middle of the night and he told me he was jealous of a guy...Last weekend, he went over to my friend's house to watch soap opera with me! But it can only mean we're friends...I'm confused. I probably should open up with him, but I don't want to risk what we have, sometimes it feels like he's the only one who gets me, and I want to be with him all the time. Any advice? Any quotes? I would really appreciate it, I'm sort of desperate. Thanks everyone!

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happy ever after (:

from: krystalrenay
date: Apr. 28th, 2010 12:51 pm (UTC)

well first, i really hope you have made a move by now, but i read threw these and a lot of them are downers and i wanted to share my story....
so me and him met threw his best friend, i was datin him at the time, and i was tryin to hook my best friend up with him. me and him talked when we were forced together, and evenually exchanged aim screen names and talk pretty much every day. he told me once that he like me as a little more than just a friend but i turned him down sayin i didnt wanna lose the relationship we had now. he helped me with pretty much anything you could think of. if i was have boyfriend troubles, i would turn to him first, always. i begain to think of him as a little (yes little, but only slightly) brother. i was in a relationship for over a year, and things were fallin apart and i was heart borken, and he talked me threw it. then i started to think, hes the only boy whos never hurt me before. but of course, he was also in a relationship for a long period of time. when i met her, i could see how happy she made him. but then they to started to fall apart, and i was there for him like he was for me. and his exact words were "g dammit, why couldnt you liked me when i liked you? we woulda be perfect!" thats when things slowly changed. i had little short meaningless relationship, and mine and his friendship grew. then finally, we went to the beach together for spring break and he asked me out. it was a little weird at first being friends for so long and not really thinkin of each other like that, to well being together. we're still together now, and ive never been happier, he knows everything about me, and its great. i dont know if we'll be together forever, but we've already made the agreement if things go sour, we stay friends cause we were friends first. if you havent done it yet, talk to him. its a whole nother look on love when you can be in love with your best friend. (: hope it helps!

its not a quote, but its mine and his song now,
"you're the love i wanna be in" -jason aldean.
its great<3

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Re: happy ever after (:

from: bernicebuxa
date: May. 27th, 2010 03:38 pm (UTC)

i want to tell you that from January till today , i told him we are together for 4 months now and its just like a dream! i was glad to do that and i think that anyone should express his feelings in anytime in his life .. its never too late and everything is possible :) thanks for your help and for telling your story wish good luck to everyone's LOVE LIFE xxxxxxxxx

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Kirk L.

The Best Friend Dilema

from: alreadydead1
date: May. 5th, 2010 02:29 am (UTC)

So as everyone has probably already noticed this isn't a rare occurence to happen. Not to sound like everyone else lol, but I to am in love with my friend. The story isn't like the rest of yours and our friendship formed from a rather crazy experience.....I know that my early actions were very wrong, so please no comments about how I'm an asshole because I already knpow this.

We met at a football game about oh 5 years ago. It didn't start out as a friendship, it started out as we both thoght the other was sexy and acted upon it...well we messed around for a few months, or at least I think it was that long. We'll I ended up taking her virginity and because there was a slight age difference I pretty much just stopped talking to her for about a year.....Which yes I know is completely wrong. Well we started talking on yahoo and I told her that I was extremely sorry about what I had did. She ended up forgiving me, which to this day I still don't understand but am extremtly grateful that she did. We'll ever since we started talking again...and yes she would come over and we would mess around...but we always talked, were never afraid to tell each other anything and mostly just had extremely bad timing. Either she would be dating someone or I would be. Even when we were dating other people we would both talk to each other about our relationships, what problems might be going on or how happy we were at the time. I will say this now because it will by far be the most important thing that I will write in here tonight......true love is being okay with the fact that you have to be happy because there happy, even if there happy with someone else. Now she's single and we still have not tried seeing were things would go....however I must confess that I am in love with this girl....I know that she isn't in love with me and thats okay with me. I guess what I'm writing is that if you really love your friend you won't let rejection get in your way because you "love" this person because of who they are.....if they just want to be friends with you then you need to realize that it's better to have them as a friend than to not have them at all.

I'm sorry if I didn't tell some of you what you would have liked to hear. I'm simply letting you know how I feel about things and giving what little advice that I can on this matter.

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Re: The Best Friend Dilema

from: k_sawakochan
date: May. 12th, 2010 12:59 am (UTC)

I know how it feels to love your best friend.

I've personally been very close to this boy for years, and we know everything each other. He admitted he liked me a couple months ago but I didn't know how I felt...I had a bf anyway, so I didn't try to think about it. We've gotten closer then I thought people could since then, and finally I figured out that I am in love with my best friend...I donno what to do at the moment though, since I am in a 9 month long relationship still...we shall see!

but I guess since this is a fairly old topic you figured out or tried it...how did it go? :)

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it sucks

from: cheer17
date: Jul. 8th, 2010 10:16 pm (UTC)

I know exactly how you feel, I met this guy 10 months ago and at first we liked eachother but i got scared and told him i just wanted to be friends. So we did. We became the bestest friends. We tell each other everything. This summer we hung out almost everyday. But i get the most mixed up signals from him. He tell mes he loves me. And i always say i love you too but i'm afraid that the love i feel is something than what he feels. He always calls me beautiful and i can't help to smile when he walks thru the door. Then again he tells me all his girl problems and says i'm his best friend. Then turns around and puts his hand on my face and holds me. I feel completely confortable around. I can wear no make and be in basketrball shorts and still feel beautiful. But he just sees me as his best friend. He says he can tell me anything. He says all he wants is a girl to hold on to and be in a good happy relationship. I know if he gave me the chance we could be amazing. Both of our mothers tell me that we will end up getting married we just don't know it yet. 5 of us went on a vacation and one night we were sleeping in the same bed, we both woke up at the same time and i got water when i came back he put his arm out and i layed on his chest it was the most perfect moment possible. I rolled off of him to see what he would do and he rolled on to me and wrapped me in his arms. It felt so good i couldn't breathe i felt like i was suffocating by the joy i felt. I'm so afraid to tell him how i really feel because i don't want it to ruin anything we have. The other night we were all at a party and i became really drunk. He helped me up stairs picked me up put me in the bed told me he loved me kissed me on the forhead and left the room. I couldn't help it all my emotions came pouring out of me and i told alot of people how i truely felt about him. Its been 3 days now and he hasn't tried to talk to me yet. I just wish he could see how much i care for him. How much i would do anything just to see him smile. Even if he isn't happy with me but with another girl i would be happy. I love more than words can describe but it just seems like he see's right thru me... i don't know what advice to give you because i don't know what to do either i just know how you feel and it sucks. The song that reminds me of the way i feel about him is The Nicest Thing by Kate Nash

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Please Tell Him!

from: mrsschum88
date: Jul. 16th, 2010 10:52 pm (UTC)

You must tell this man. I knew my best friend, Ryan for 7 years. Him and I went to high school together (where we met). I have been in love with him for 6 years. I kept it to myself because just like you, I didnt want to ruin our friendship it was so special to me... About 3 years ago he was leaving for college in Arizona, and I told him that night I had feelings for him and he told me it was too late... When he came back I knew for sure I was over him the whole year he was gone, but when he came back I knew I was still very much in love with him. I eventually told him and when I did, he asked me to kiss him. After that, we started dating and we have been together for almost 2 years now, We are talking about marriage and children...

Bottom line, you cant be afraid to tell him in fear of losing him. Because if you dont ever tell him it obviously will never work because he will never know. You must tell him... I was dumb and waited 4 years but now we are deeply in love. You dont want to blow your chance for happiness just because you're nervous.

I hope everything works out for you.

Sincerely, Kimberly

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from: redpink17
date: Jul. 30th, 2010 05:49 pm (UTC)

yes..im inlove with him for almost 7 years...he was my college classmate then we become best friends..
i really love him. he knows it..i told him. at first, i was really shy but suddenly i want to take the risk if we have a chance together..
thinking how many times i've told him (maybe 4 times????)..he had only ONE answer "i don't love you, i can't love you, i'm sorry because i always hurt you", after he says this, i always ask him, i'll just let him go (as my friend) and we remove all our communication...
the confusing answer he always tells me.."I DON'T WANT TO LOSE YOU. YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT TO ME. YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL TO ME." his answers made me not to let go of him..
we don't see each other because we are really far from each other.
he had his gf's and i had my bf's.our bf's and gf's are always jealous with us..on what closeness we have..
now, we are both single and im trying and pushing myself away not love him because i dont want to get hurt though in the past it really hurts me a lot...but still some part of me still hoping for him. :(

can someone help me about our situation???
what should i do?

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from: redpink17
date: Jul. 30th, 2010 05:59 pm (UTC)

here's the quote:

“It´s painful to fall in love w/ someone who has someone else especially if you tried everything to ignore the feelings.. the feelings.. worst is, if that someone made you feel as if you´re someone special.. but then u are inlove.”

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SecretLife OfAStarbucks Barista

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from: 0wisewords0
date: Nov. 19th, 2010 09:51 am (UTC)

At least you're not in a real friend zone. If you're exchanging cute txts, you're not in the friend zone. When my boyfriend and I were JUST friends, we literally were JUST friends. No cute texts, took us forever to even be comfortable hugging, telling each other EVERYTHING, etc. Literally everything you'd do with JUST a best friend.

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Hilda Acord

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from: Hilda Acord
date: Dec. 19th, 2010 04:22 am (UTC)

i am in love with my bestfriend but he has a gf and has had her for almost a year.and it hurts me soo bad and it kills me to hear him cry over her cuz she puts himtrhough helll.

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Karen Tirando

i have fallen for my bestfriend

from: Karen Tirando
date: Jan. 26th, 2011 09:57 am (UTC)

hes my bestfriend for almost 10 yrs but sad to say i fell inlove with him but i cant really tell him scared that he might get angry and well lost our friendship id rather keep it inside than taking the risk of loosing him

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from: cutesyredhead
date: Feb. 6th, 2011 04:30 am (UTC)

My best friend has been there from the word go. I went to both of my highschool proms with him and such, he asked me out after each one...and you can guess what my answer was..."No, you are my best friend and i'm not going to lose you". He was there through all the guys that have used me, cheated on me, or completely just left me in the gutter. Family problems, my car breaking down in the middle of the night and him picking my ass up. Never made me feel awkward or push himself on me. Slept beside him on a camping trip and didn't touch me once because i at the time, had a boyfriend. He always respected and understood. November 29th of 2010, he grabbed me after we went to the movies in his car and just kissed me. Didn't ask, or anything, and it was the best thing has ever happened to me. We have been dating for 2 months, and I can seriously see myself with him for a very long time. He knows all my past, everything i have done, mistakes, drunken hookups...everything. He takes me for what I am, and I love him very much.

As much as I pushed him away for so long, I always secretly wanted him. Comparing all the guys I ever dated to him. It was pretty pathetic. But for now in my life, I can easily say I am so happy that he just grabbed me and kissed me.

So I'm hoping, I know this is a super delayed post, that you made the move. It's worth it. Trust me.

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Georgia Courtney Roberts

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from: Georgia Courtney Roberts
date: Feb. 16th, 2011 08:21 am (UTC)

okay, so last year i became friends with this guy. we are now in a brother/sister relationship. but last year (august-september) i would kinda act with him more that i liked him, like when we were sat together in the auditorium i would wrap my arms round his arm, sit on his knee and stuff etc, but the thing i hate most is whenn youur stupid bestfriend says 'yous should soo go out' because i havent acted like that with him since.
this week ive started to like him moree, and long to kiss him . ♥
but, shes put me off. i think i'll wait to have a summer fling with him, or should i wait till outside school completely, i only have 3 more years to go. i just really dont like having relationships in school .

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Kayleigh Pitre

me too

from: Kayleigh Pitre
date: Mar. 10th, 2011 03:23 pm (UTC)

i started being friends with this guy in the 6th grade.. we dated for like 2 weeks in middle school but broke up for some weird reason but after that we became like best friends.. he would always come over to hang out and call me up for advice on his girlfriends.. and sophmore year of highschool we were at a party and we almost kissed but quickly realized that we shouldnt do that lol.. but a few months later he came over after a party drunk and kissed me and we ended up making out.. we just laughed it off.. but the next year he moved away and we lost contact with each other for 2 years.. when he came back i saw him in a club for the first time in 2 years and i went off on him for leaving me without my best guy friend lol.. we had sooo much to talk about.. he was going through a divorce and i had a baby.. we stayed up all night talking to each other on the phone and somewhere during all that i realized i loved him.. and we had that conversation and we both felt the same but never pursued a relationship or anything.. we stayed best friends.. but just a few weeks ago i went to a party and got alittle drunk and needed a ride home so i called him.. he came and got me and things took a drastic turn.. we slept together that night and the night after.. we havent been able to talk about it.. he's come over quite a bit after that and he has some idea about how i feel from a facebook post but we still havent talked about anything.. i feel like im gonna lose my mind if i dont find out how he feels soon but i dont even know how to start that conversation??

whew.. felt good to get that off my chest! lol!!

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Shelby Rae Knox

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from: Shelby Rae Knox
date: Mar. 21st, 2011 07:01 pm (UTC)

i fell in love with my best friend when i was 13. i told him and at the time he had been dating a friend, his reaction was unexpected to say the least he told me he had been in love with me since we met. a few weeks later we started dating, and everyone kind of expected it. we dated for 2 and a half years and half way through sophomore year i broke up with him. i was scared, things were very serious, we had plans to get married after graduation and i thought my life was kind of set in stone ... so i ran and like i usually do i ran into the hands of the first guy i saw. well we lasted about 3 months and my now ex boyfriend and best friend hated me. he didnt understand why i did it. why i was scared. so here i am at the end of my junior year. its been 4 years since i fell in love with him. and we have been seperated for over a year, we talk every now and then. he has a new girlfriend now and i tell him im happy for him and all the crap he wants to hear. but i love him and regret everything. he tells me things can be different again someday so i hold on to that hope and ive been trying ever since to win him back.

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Melanie Pettey

I feel ya

from: melaniemcfly8
date: Mar. 24th, 2011 03:16 am (UTC)

I'm in the same situation. My best friend, well, he's amazing. I always denied it, you know? But, when I finally realized, "damn, I love him" it hit me. We talked one day about how it feels like we should be together or how he really thinks we may get married, but that was a while ago. And I feel as if he doesn't feel that way anymore or the same way about me. Plus, he just got out of a relationship with the girl he lost his virginity to, so I'm pretty sure he loves her still. And he always jokes with this other girl that he knew when he was little about how they're gonna get married. I don't know if he's serious or what. But it absolutely kills me, you know? Like, I just sit and think, "I'm RIGHT here, I've been here ALL ALONG. Why are you gonna go talking about marrying someone else when I love you?" IT SUCKS. I'm not telling right now; which is why I hope he goes to the same college as me so I can see where it'll go and talk to him in the future. My best friend thats a girl says something's gonna happen, but I just can't believe it until I see it. My advice: go for it. You'll regret it if you don't, & he'll end up falling in love with someone else and marrying another bitch if you keep quiet. Don't be like me and SPEAK UP (:

Here are some good quotes:
"You are one of the best things that's ever happened to me. You're my love and my best friend. And every day that goes by, it seems like I discover something new about you to love. It's incredible to me how one person can make such a big difference in my life. You touch my heart in a way I never knew before."

"I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, & love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you."

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love."

"I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out."

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Melanie Pettey

Re: I feel ya

from: melaniemcfly8
date: Mar. 24th, 2011 03:19 am (UTC)

Also, he's the one in the picture with me. Forgot to mention :)

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I have committed the same crime.

from: quotelover
date: Apr. 5th, 2011 07:36 pm (UTC)

Well, I didn't know this was a common problem..

We are know best friends for three years.
Everyone used to say or think that he and I would make a great couple..
We just used to laugh about it en go one our lifes just the way we were: BEST FRIENDS.

In january we went out for a party; he was a little drunk. I don't drink. He thrice said: I'm gonna marry you, and then kissed me on my forehead. My eyes kept staring his face. He kept holding my hand all night long, not left me alone for even a second. A friend of him asked him to go out en smoke cigarette. He refused because I wouldnt go; as it is it was could enough.

All the people present at the party, saw us as a couple.. Then I started to think.. Not all the people could have been wrong. From that time, till now I used to make myself crazy with different thoughts.
He barely talks about his feelings, only when drunk:p.

So last weekend I told him that I love him, more than friends.
I said I was affraid to lose you and your friendship. But I couldn't take it anymore. I had to know.

Then he said: I have also feelings for you.. It started more then a year ago..

So, now we know about each others feelings.

But we are not in a relationship. He 's affraid our friendship will break of the relationship doesn't work out.

Is he right in his place?

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Opposite Way

from: djs34
date: Apr. 8th, 2011 05:36 am (UTC)

So my best friend was the one who was actually in love with me, haha. I say was, cause well, now I love him. We've been friends since about 3rd or 4th grade and now we are in 10th grade. So, a pretty long time. Well he's liked since before he could even remember. And we've always tried dating each other and it was always just kind of awkward, at least or me. It never was with him or anything, just always me. Like, he's never stopped loving me, ever. And we've both had other relationships, but they never ever last at all ha. And well he was actually starting to give up and I was starting to give in and very, very randomly we were just hanging out and we both felt feelings, very strong ones. so we talked about it, and we actually ended up dating. And it's not weird at all. I mean I am fully and completely in love with him and I cant imagine myself without him. I guess, after awhile you develop feelings no matter what. Two people can't be best friends for that long and not feel something. I actually believe that best friends are soul mates. So I'm just saying that waiting is always good. You never want to rush or plan anything, cause that's what we always did at first, and it never worked out. The best kind of relationships are the ones that happen at random, no planning, just destiny. So, I hope that helped somewhat ha, even though you've probably already done something about this problem since it was like 3 years ago ha. Oh well, figured I'd try to help anyway:)

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im lucky im in love with my best friend

from: ashleyliz93
date: Apr. 26th, 2011 10:04 pm (UTC)

i was in the same situation as you.

i've known my best friend Nick since we were eleven. from the beginning, i've always had feelings for him. but, at the time he didn't return those feelings.

now of course, him not returning the feelings hurt like hell, but we remained friends without any awkwardness. however, our friends, mothers, and his older brother would always say 'you two are going to end up with each other because it wont work with anyone else; you two will end up married one day.'

now ill admit, this past year ive been denying my feelings for him because i didn't want to end up hurt again. but back in september, when the boy i had been dating broke up with me, i saw what i had in front of me. i took one look at my best friend and realized i loved him. i didn't tell him, so i just stayed friends with him. then two months later, my best friend told me he had started to have feelings for me.

now, five months later - we've had our ups and downs, but we're still together and he really brings out the best in me. im proud to say he's my other half and i dont know what i'd do without him. the best part about our relationship is, we know that no matter what happens, we'll always be best friends.

i really hope it worked out for you and your friend!

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heres my opinion hope it helps

from: samham123
date: May. 23rd, 2011 04:22 am (UTC)

my advice for you is dont give up if you really like this guy or love this guy go for it. if theres people in your way push them aside. you wanna be happy right? i was once told that the best relationships come out of friendships. and its true. the only thing your risking in the end is the friendship if things end up not working out. i know its hard because i am currently in a position similar to that...and trust me hes hurting me and giving me an emotional hurricane! because hes so indecisive. but i know he really cares about me. so it makes everything better, i can tell by just what you wrote that that guy cares about you no guy i mean NO GUY will waste his time on a girl that he didnt think was cute...look beyond the obsticles that currently face you and look for happiness..im shure youll find it in the end.

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from: hearmeout18
date: Jun. 12th, 2011 07:23 am (UTC)

believe it or not. we had the same situation.

tell him. :) atleast he knows. :D if he's really your best friend. he'll understand you. thats what i did. i took the risk. look at us now. :) he's my boyfriend now. :D and we're in love. that can happen to you too. :D GO FOR IT! ;)

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from: Alveegia Sue Conde Sulima
date: Jun. 21st, 2011 04:01 pm (UTC)

last day were bstfriends , the next day he felt nlove w/me and now i felt the same way around. it's not just were bstfriends ,if wre jst in that situation for sure we might go beyond that but we are related to each other were not just bstfriends but we are relatives ''third degree cousin '' i think! it's so hard to forget the feelngs that easy. it takes a million times to diminish those LOVES.

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Sam Tennant

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from: LillixNCIS
date: Dec. 21st, 2011 02:07 pm (UTC)

I'm in a really similar situation. This has happened to me twice now... The first, I liked him for 4 months, before finally getting the courage to tell him. He blushed and asked me if I really did, because he liked me too. He was a really amazing best friend, but he wasn't the best boyfriend for me. We broke up a few months later, and it's been awkward ever since. We aren't best friends any more, but I can still run to him when I need help.
Currently, I am in love with an impossibly handsome boy who recently moved here. He's amazing, caring, smart, kind, and pretty much everything I want. I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because he is such a great friend, and he has a girlfriend overseas. He frequently says how much I remind him of her, and I'm not sure what I'm supposed to think. I completely understand feeling like that guy is the only one who gets you, the boy I like, he's the only one that can pull me up when I start falling into another depression, and I'm really afraid of losing someone who cares so selflessly about me.

After all this ranting, I think you should consider what could happen, good and bad things. If he makes your heart beat faster, your stomach do acrobatics, and everything in the world look brighter and better? Maybe you should try and think of subtle ways to at least pretend joke about the possibility of going out, watching his reaction to it, trying to gauge how he feels about you. I know it's confusing, but if it works out? Trust me, it's worth it!

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from: xhauflair
date: Jan. 12th, 2012 03:12 pm (UTC)

Hi guys, i need all the help possible. i'm in LOVE with my best friend. we talk all the time, whether it's on the phone, texting, or even skype. but i dont think she feels the same way for me as i do for her. her parents are against her dating someone from a different religion but i think she would be okay with an exclusive relationship. she got an email from another guy recently, the guy sent her an email saying how much he loved her. i was too late. now i dont know what to do. should i tell her? or should i end our friendship? or should i just go with the flow and hope for the best in the end?

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Best friend

from: Kalan Lannom
date: Jan. 19th, 2012 07:18 pm (UTC)

I was in the same situation last year. He had been my best friend for 5 years. I have liked him ever since and we tell each other everything. He was about to leave for basic training and he still didnt know I liked him. So I finally told him gently. I said" you are my best friend and I have fallen in love with you, but. It's ok if you don't feel the same way because you will always be my best friend and I will be here for you no matter what. It turns out he had liked me all that time too. So if I didn't risk putting myself out there then I never would of known. But I'm trying to take things really slow to not ruin our friendship. So I felt so much better letting him know. <3

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Arianne Mae Labjata


from: Arianne Mae Labjata
date: Jan. 25th, 2012 09:43 am (UTC)

we have the same situation,but i think for you its normal cuz he's a boy..while ME,my bestfriend is a girl,shes always there for me,the same thing for me to her..give tips on how to handle any problem most specially in LOVE,she once fell in love with her friend also a girl(her fudge) when she knew that she already love her,she said she was hurt,that's how she knew..the same thing with me,the time i knew she's in love with her friend(fudge) i was TOTALLY HURT!

then till now, it still HURTS!

and my tip is GO CONFESS w/ HIM I think He also have his feelings for you.. GOODLUCK :)..

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Reina Bautista

in love with my best friend

from: Reina Bautista
date: Mar. 23rd, 2012 01:50 pm (UTC)

Its really hard to pretend that i don't love him anymore, but every time i see/saw him i feel/felt pain. I really want him but I cant.

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Here's a story for you.

from: take1look
date: May. 2nd, 2012 03:02 am (UTC)

I've known my best friend for two years. Here's the catch. I'm a guy. He's a guy... We both thought we were straight but we later talked about how we were curious to try out the "other team."

Well you see, when we first met, I found out maybe a year later, that he actually liked me and was attracted to me, I just didn't know at the time. I admitted to him that I'm still attracted to him. We talk all the time about anything and everything. He even told me one time when we were in the car that me and him would be perfect for each other. Oh how true. We're like, the same exact person. He tells me now that he only sees me as a brother now which I can't whole-heartedly believe. My one friend that I confide all of this to says that she thinks he's afraid. I don't know what he'd be afraid of when it comes to talking to me about it. I try to make it as clear as possible (without just coming out and saying it) that I'm interested in him. He lives about 45 minutes away from me so I go and see him when I can but it's not always easy. When I do go to see him I always take him out to dinner and everything.

We always hug when we say goodbye, I mean. It seems more than just "best friends." Hell, brothers don't just hug when they say goodbye normally. We have girls coming up to us and telling us that they'd believe in homosexuality if me and this guy got together. I just wish that he would realize what's going on.

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